“Too nice” vibe. Often perceived as weak, pushover-ish, or easily taken advantage of. For years, I felt pressured to be more assertive, more demanding, more…less “nice.” My natural niceness felt like a social liability, something to overcome, not embrace. Then, I realized something. My “too nice” vibe…actually worked.
Instead of suppressing my niceness, I embraced it. Let it be a part of my social interactions. And surprisingly, people responded positively. Kindness, politeness, genuine warmth – these “too nice” traits, instead of being weaknesses, became relationship builders, trust generators, and surprisingly…effective social tools. “Too nice” vibe working wasn’t about being naive or a doormat, but about realizing that kindness is a strength, not a weakness, and that genuine niceness can be surprisingly powerful in social interactions. “Too nice” vibe shame faded away, replaced by a newfound appreciation for the social power of kindness and a realization that authenticity trumps manufactured “toughness.” Embrace your niceness. It might just be your social superpower.